I tried my best to get training images with literally pulling the hair and yanking her head back. In the past most loras on SDXL or Illustrious were more "let me hold your hair a bit" instead of really forcefully grabbing it.

so here you go.

I highly suggest adding my Pain-Expression lora!!!

the trigger "pu11" is optional!

Strength: 0.9-1.0

Have fun!